By Lloyd Uren*
Have you ever heard your parents say, ‘Just save what you can’ or ‘Buy property as soon as possible?’ Their advice came from a place of love. But let’s be honest: the financial world today looks nothing like the one they grew up in.
Back then, homes were affordable, jobs were stable, and bank savings actually earned decent interest. Today? House prices have outpaced salaries, job security isn’t guaranteed, and inflation eats away at money left in the bank.
Still, their core messages like living within your means, planning ahead, and saving for the future are as true as ever. They just need a modern twist.
Here are four timeless lessons, updated for today’s world.
- Credit cards aren’t evil, they’re tools
Many of us were taught to avoid credit cards like the plague. “It’s too easy to fall into debt,” we were warned. And that’s true – when misused.
But used wisely, a credit card builds your credit score and earns rewards, and can be done without incurring interest if you pay off the full balance every month. This way, it becomes a tool, not a trap.
Using your card in this way can improve your credit score, which helps when applying for car finance or a home loan. Also, many banks offer rewards and cashback, such as Discovery Miles or FNB eBucks, that can add value to everyday spending.
Used wisely, a credit card can be a tool for financial growth rather than a source of debt.
- Investing isn’t gambling
Your parents may have seen investing as a risky gamble. Better to keep money ‘safe’ in the bank, was the mantra.
But leaving everything in savings today is a risk in itself because inflation erodes your money’s value year after year. Suddenly, that ‘safe’ money loses power over time.
Investing, by contrast, is not guesswork. It’s guided by research, strategy, and time. A well-diversified portfolio spreads your risk and creates room for growth. It’s true that markets go up and down but over time, they trend upward.
Today’s mantra is that investing isn’t gambling, it’s planning for your future.
- Start now, not later
The best time to start investing? A few years ago. The second-best time? Right now.
One of the greatest gifts you can give your future self is time. Compound growth means your returns start earning returns, but that only works if you start early.
Don’t worry about being perfect. Focus on being consistent. Small, regular contributions often beat big, last-minute catch-ups.
This isn’t just theory, it’s what we see with real clients, year after year.
- A savings account isn’t a retirement plan
It feels comforting to see a solid bank balance. And yes, an emergency fund is vital, but after that? Money sitting in a bank for decades won’t keep up with inflation. That’s not retirement planning, it’s standing still.
Rather look at options like tax-free savings accounts, retirement annuities, or discretionary investments. These are built for long-term growth.
And with the right advice, they don’t have to be complex structure. A qualified financial adviser can help you navigate these options, avoid common pitfalls, and build a plan tailored to your goals.
Your parents might have given you a solid foundation in your financial planning. Their principles still matter, but the world has changed.
It’s now your turn to adapt that wisdom to today’s reality. With smart strategies and the right support, you can turn good intentions into real financial progress.
*Lloyd Uren is a Financial Advisor under the direct supervision of Brian Butchart CFP®, based at Brenthurst Wealth Granger Bay.



Megan joined the Brenthurst Wealth team in March 2026 as an Administrative and Fiduciary Services Assistant at our Val de Vie Office in the Western Cape. Prior to joining Brenthurst, Megan gained three years of experience in the retail sector, where she developed management and client service skills.




I obtained my National Diploma in Financial Information Systems from the Cape Peninsula University of Technology in 1999 and have worked in the wealth management industry since January 2000. Over the years, I have gained extensive experience in various roles, including Portfolio Manager Assistant, Planner Assistant, and Paraplanner.
Esmarelda Isaacs-Andreas joined the Brenthurst Wealth Stellenbosch office in October 2025, taking on the dual role of Receptionist and Fiduciary Administrator.
I obtained my National Diploma in Financial Information Systems from the Cape Peninsula University of Technology in 1999 and have worked in the wealth management industry since January 2000. Over the years, I have gained extensive experience in various roles, including Portfolio Manager Assistant, Planner Assistant, and Paraplanner.
Ashley joined Brenthurst Wealth in January 2025 as Office Administrative Assistant and Receptionist for the Stellenbosch Office.




René Heystek joined Brenthurst Wealth in November 2023, as receptionist and administrative assistant in the newly established George/Garden Route office.
Michelle Heystek has built a career in the financial services over the last two decades, after obtaining her B.Com degree in Financial Management in 2005. Once she joined Brenthurst in 2006, she continued her academic journey, obtaining her Certificate in Wealth Management from INSETA in 2007, followed by a Postgraduate Diploma in Financial Planning from the University of the Free State. In 2008, she earned the Certified Financial Planner (CFP®) designation.





Anelle joined Brenthurst Wealth as a Receptionist and Administrative Assistant to Brian Butchart in the Cape Town office in December 2023. She has a wealth of knowledge from working as a liaison between Financial Advisers and clients at TMA and Absa Investment Management Services (Aims) since 1998. She obtained her B. com degree from the University of Port Elizabeth in 1997.











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Sanet was appointed in April 2020, joining our Cape Town team as an Executive Administration Assistant to Renee Eagar. She has been in the financial services industry since 1990. Her previous experience includes positions at Sanlam, BJM and ABSA. She spent her last 12 years working at Alexander Forbes Private Client Wealth as a Senior Wealth Management Assistant. She has received numerous accolades over the years which include but not limited to, Alexander Forbes Client Service Excellence – Silver award in 2014,2015 and 2017. Sanet has also obtained her Certificate in Wealth Management (NQF 5) in 2012 and achieved “Best Student of the Year” from Moonstone.













Maria Smit is a Certified Financial Planner® with over 10 years of experience in the financial planning industry.


























